We all go through things in life, big or small, it doesn’t really matter. What matters is the impact the situation has on you and what you experience from within. Your inner world determines how you feel. The situation you are, or were, in might be a divorce, the death of a loved one, an illness you have or someone close to you. It can also be a different situation, recent or even old that still is unprocessed and perhaps suppressed, resulting in that you (still) experience pain, sorrow and/or stress.